Parental mental health during a sleep crisis
I’m sure you don’t need me to tell you that a sleep crisis is not only tough and tiring, it can leave you feeling totally overwhelmed.
being honest, there are no magic tips to coping during a sleep crisis.
Sleep skids absolutely suck
They are tough
They are tiring
They are hard
Ways to prioritise your Mental Health when you’re not sleeping
I hope these tips will help ease things a bit for you whilst going through a sleep crisis with your Small:
Block the clock and try not to look at your phone at wake-ups.
Scrap the app and try not to obsess over your Small’s sleep patterns or how much sleep they are or aren’t getting.
Go outside and get some fresh air and natural light every day. It’s an instant boost that can make you feel better. And it CAN help sleep too!
If you can, get out for a gentle walk. Even if it’s just around the block it can make your feel better.
Is there ANYTHING you can let go of, pause or delegate to someone else right now?
Is there anyone you can ask for help? If you don’t want to leave your Small with someone else, could they do some adult admin for you?
Have a break from Instagram, social media, forums or any websites that add to your sleep stress (this totally includes mine!)
Don’t forget to eat regularly and make sure you’re drinking enough water/fluids.
Rest whenever you can. Even if you don’t sleep, rest is best!
Remind yourself constantly that everything is a phase and nothing is permanent. Even though I know it doesn’t feel like it.
I know some of these sound easier said than done but sometimes a small change can make a big difference.
If you’re really struggling with any parenting-related stress, my podcast with Dr Fiona Jeffries about Parental Mental Health might help to reassure you, and there are lots of support links in the show notes.